Three out of four Americans believe the “war on drugs” is a failure and can never be won. Serious people like Sen. Jim Webb, former Mexican president Vicente Fox, Congressmen Barney Frank, Charlie Rangel, Steve Cohen and others, even a growing body of right-of-center analysts and politicians have been saying it’s time to fundamentally reshape our approach to drug control.
So, why this divide between massive public opposition to current policies and the positions taken by our leaders? Fear, of course. They’re afraid of being punished for touching what has been perceived, mistakenly, as a third rail issue.
And the cause of this “drug war dementia”? I’m guessing it has something to do with a brilliant 2004 poll on the topic of medical marijuana. The poll asked two questions, the first confirming what had already been shown over and over again: that about 70 percent of people support the idea of legalizing marijuana, at least for medical purposes.
But then, pollsters asked something interesting:
“Regardless of your own opinion, do you think the majority of people support making marijuana medically available, or do you think the majority opposes making marijuana medically available?”
The result? In Rhode Island, where the poll was conducted, only 26.5 percent thought that most people support medical marijuana.
The lesson here? While many of our elected representatives privately support serious changes to our failed drug laws, they believe they are alone. They think if they stick their necks out they’ll be handed their heads come election time.
Which is why we must rise up and let our elected officials know they are safe to support drug law reform. And in considerable political danger if they do not.
via Norm Stamper: Progressives Push Against Drug War: Will Dems Listen?.
This is also why we must come out of the cannabis closet and make ourselves known as the responsible, taxpaying, normal-with-an-a, law-abiding-(except-that-law) citizens that we are. When the only public image of the cannabis community is the “stoner”, the people who support our issue will only do so quietly, lest they be lumped in with the “burnouts”.
Never has this point been so crystal clear to me as during this last weekend’s family campout for Independence Day.This was a campout for my wife’s immediate family, which sounds like a cozy get-together until you realize she is the fifth of fifteen kids. When all the brothers and sisters plus their spouses and children gather, it’s an event with about sixty people. Most of the younger brothers and sisters are former marijuana smokers, but they’ll tell you they “outgrew that” or “had to become a mom/dad”. Yet four of them were eager to stop by our tent for a puff of Oregon’s finest.
That’s right – tent. It was such a 180° from last weekend’s Mountain High Camping Weekend, where I gathered with an all-male group of cannabis activists and medical marijuana patients. Pipes, bongs, joints, and vaporizer bags were plentiful and marijuana buds and hash were openly shared by all. But at this weekends’ family festivities, my tent had to be set up in the furthest corner and all my tokes had to be surreptitiously sneaked behind zippered doors.
One cousin, three years older than me, came in and offered to light us up with what he had brought from Idaho. It was that sad golf-divot-looking, alfalfa-smelling pressed brick Mexican schwag that I’d last seen six years ago before moving to Portland. “Put that away,” I chided, “because not only will that not have the slightest effect on me, but I also won’t smoke anything that’s killing innocent Mexicans.” He explained that chunk of hemp pressboard was all they could get in Idaho; I explained how 7,000 Mexicans are murdered per year as cartels smuggle that crap to the states. We then lit up the fine crystally Oregon bud. He was just one hit in when his eyes sparkled. That was all he needed, he said, and it showed.
This cousin then explained to me how he used to smoke cannabis regularly, but now he had become a father and had to “play grown-up” and couldn’t do that anymore. I had taken a vow of neutrality for my wife that I would shelve my political persona for the weekend (just “Russ”, not “Radical Russ”) – so I didn’t tell him about all the incredible parents I know who are regular cannabis smokers.
Later that weekend, this cousin got very drunk and slept away most of the next day with a splitting hangover… while his child was taken care of by the rest of the adults. So much for “playing grown-up”.
Which leads me to the booze. I will not make the obvious joke about my wife’s family’s Irish heritage and the bottle – this scene could’ve played out in any American family of any heritage. But all weekend, every day, cooler after cooler of beer was filled and emptied. At the center camping table where toddlers sat to eat and play were bags of chips, cookies, candies, and one-third of the table covered with bottles of gin, rum, vodka, tequila, whiskey, and liqueurs. One female cousin got particularly “well served” and babbled and laughed to the point where my eleven-year-old niece is teasing her for being “a drunk”.
I don’t mean to paint this picture to show my wife’s family as reckless or irresponsible. Those kids are well-watched, they know that alcohol is for adults, and everyone drinking there handles their alcohol responsibly (even if that is to responsibly puke in the bushes away from camp). Nobody drives, gets violent, or allows the kids to drink. But as I watched this scene, I wondered just how much of a turd in the punchbowl I would’ve been if I had simply loaded a bowl in my Starfish Designs pipe and smoked it as I enjoyed the campfire.
Every one of them who were drinking, even to excess, are fine responsible parents with great kids. It wouldn’t occur to any of them that becoming parents meant they had to stop drinking to become “responsible”. Yet to a person every one of them offers some sort of excuse that growing up and becoming parents forced them to stop smoking cannabis. When I dig deep enough, I find that it is their fear of legal sanctions and losing their kids that is the true reason.
And now we get back to that Rhode Island poll where almost 3 out of 4 people support medical marijuana, but only think 1 out of 4 of their neighbors do. These in-laws of mine, they know their cannabis use doesn’t make them bad parents, but they think others would consider them bad parents if their cannabis use was known. They don’t know what to tell their kids about cannabis if they used it; they don’t know how to tell their kids that they should always obey the law and respect police, except when it comes to mommy and daddy’s smokable plant. With alcohol they can say, “wait til you’re older”. With cannabis, they are so conditioned to think of it as an act of juvenile rebellion that they feel immature and irresponsible when they use it.
I think next year, after the kids go to sleep, I will have to just take out a joint and start smoking it. Especially after the umpteenth offer of alcohol from one of my in-laws, which I refuse every time with, “No thanks, I’m only choosing safer drugs in my old age.”
Like Ed Rosenthal once joked, he suffers from an undiagnosed glaucoma that hasn’t been diagnosed because he’s been smoking marijuana and it hasn’t developed.
I know I can only stand and walk without pain in my surgically-altered feet because of my regular cannabis use. It sucks to think of having to go without and suffer in pain for weeks or months to prove to a doctor that I’m in pain enough to legally continue not being in pain.
It reminds me of the prohibitionists who talk about perfectly healthy people going into dispensaries, like that’s a bad thing. Have they considered that cannabis is what is keeping them perfectly healthy?
No, they cannot, for their minds are trapped in the frame of “health care” and not “wellness”. They think you must first be broken so the system can fix you, or (more profitably) maintain you, rather than the system keeping you from breaking in the first place.
If you have a scrip for Vicodin in Washington State, you can get medical marijuana. Get the to the THCF clinic!
I also think it is a bad idea to nurture unquestioning respect for all laws. Respect that there are laws, respect that we can only exist as a nation of laws, but never extinguish that inner light that tells you what is just, regardless of laws.
(This advice dispensed with the standard disclaimer that I have no children.)
I too thought that I was too healthy,(see my previous reference to “CAS” complete asshole syndrome) ’til I noticed that my creaky old shoulder got more painful in the spring. I also start to run short of buds in the spring(what can I say, there’s only one growing season. who has all that money to grow indoors) Anyway, when I put all this information together it came to me that the shoulder probably hurt the whole time but I never noticed it because I rarely run out. So, I told all this to my Dr. and asked him for the sort of documentation they require at the THCF clinic And he instead gave me the recomendation himself.Independance day for me is 06-03-09. I suspect that they’re in the midst of giving us old timers a pass. Whatever, it works for me. That front porch thing,however might prove to be a problem. I think there’s some clause about public display.
It still disturbs me greatly that I had to finagle PERMISSION to engage in such a benign activity.
If you have to ask for permission, to be free, then you’re only free enough to ask for permission.
Hey D, good to hear from an old school supporter of the good fight. I too await the day you can fire up on your porch, I already do but I want the day I dont have to run inside if johnny law pulled up, but there is more to it than just mj that we fight for mj is just the poster child as we know.
Russ;
I know my own personal concern regarding mj use around my kids was more a concern for encouraging a respect for law than a fear of their understanding the stupidity of that law. As a parent, I felt I had a resonsibility to instill a respect for the law. Any and all laws. I found it hard to try to explain how it was ok to ignore laws you don’t agree with. Only obey those that you like.
I’m 64 now. Rarely smoke. Support prohibition repeal. (Actually, full legalization of ALL drugs). Don’t know or associate with any stoners or stashers. Don’t have access to smoke. Kids are grown. My 14 year old grandson knows I support legalization. Knows I USED to smoke (and probably knows I would if I had it).
There’s nothing I would enjoy more than to sit out on my front porch, now that I’m retired, and fire up a fatty. Unfortunately, I’m too healthy! Ironic, huh? Had a quadruple bypass 4 years ago. Arteriosclerosis. Diabetic, on insulin 3 times a day. Blood pressure meds, cholesterol lowering meds. Oh yeah, I also have a script for vicodin. But alas, too frigging healthy to smoke pot. Hey, maybe that’s why I’m a Norml supporter. No wait. I’ve been a supporter since the early ’70′s. Helped circulate one of Norml’s first petitions.
Freedom and Liberty. Two ideals our forefathers believed in strongly enough to go to war. THAT’S why I’m a Norml supporter. (and Libertarian). I guess if you temper the admission of mj use with the fact that rebellion is a trait our country was founded on, it might make it a bit easier to ‘come out of the closet’, and help the younger folks understand what America is really all about.
Let’s hurry up and get the job done. My front porch awaits.
A Norml stasher from Washington.